Tuesday, April 1, 2008
Yet another...
We had another huge clothes related tantrum this morning. Got all of the family in a great mood to start off the day. Then this afternoon I guess we had been home for about 5 minutes before the next clothes related tantrum started. I honestly am at a loss for what to do about this. I just know I have to fix it because I am NOT (did every one hear me???), NOT, NOT going to have a child who acts this way. If I have to give away every stitch of clothing she owns and dress her in all solid color pants and t-shirts for the rest of her life, I will. And believe it or not, that is the solution I am cooking up in my mind right now. Thinking out loud here... what if I took all of her clothes and locked them in her closet so that she could not get to them, and only allowed her to wear a select few outfits(plain, of course) until this behavior stops? I could make exceptions for church, and maybe dance class and that's it. Do you think that would help? I need something because between Brad and myself there's just not enough patience for this EVERY day. My nerves can't take it. My friend Christy said she heard about a book called "The Strong-Willed Child"... maybe I'll look for it because that's definitely what I have on my hands here, to say the least.
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Speaking of "The Strong Willed Child", they are having a speaker at First Baptist on April 13th and that is the title of his presentation. I'm not sure who the guy is, if he's a child psychologist or what. The tickets are free and I can get you some at day care. I picked some up for some other desperate moms at work. Let me know if you're interested. I wish I had some advice beyond spanking her senseless, but I wouldn't know what to do either, sorry.
Oh girl... I've been there done that... still do a little bit. Carter is the one with the clothes "issues". It's a little better, but I think only because I've just come to the point of "does it really matter & will if affect anything in the future". I'll email you... to long to post a comment.
Maybe you could make her think you're throwing some of her things away every time she pitches one of her tantrums. You could make sure its some of her favorite things - like those sparkle shoes.
Just an option in case locking up her clothes doesn't work.
But stick to your guns. You HAVE to win. You have to believe that she'll give up eventually. I mean, you are the boss. Right?
LY
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